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Miss Jana, Miss Kelly and Miss Judy all went to the Early Childhood workshop out at USI this morning. Jana picked me up at 6:30. It was time very well spent. We saw a lot of old friends including the keynote speaker, Mary Jo Huff.

Mary Jo is an international story teller and an old and dear friend. She can carry an audience for hours and people just love her. She uses a lot of puppets and encourages other teachers to do the same thing. It’s obvious why. Puppets, props and “look at mes” are things that motivate children to listen simply because they draw the attention, draw the interest of the child for some silly or some purposeful reason, and therefore the children learn. Children won’t learn unless they listen, and passive listening is one of the nightmares of our time, so consequently the right teacher approach is to “get ’em to listen.”

We bought some peepers. I’m sure the kids will report about the peepers.

I’m posting Mary Jo’s website under “Fun places to be.” I hope readers will visit her site.

The other classes at the workshop were enlightening. We at the Garden School are right on the cutting edge of education. We’re batting 1000 and what’s new and news is old hat for us. It’s a nice trend. We used to be considered “out there” and now everyone is catching up. We’re not on a separate planet anymore, and that’s nice.

Miss Jana is thinking of teaching science at school. I think it would be a nice addition. I would be the literature teacher and take over that spot. It would be very good for me to do that.

One of the things that was suggested at the workshop was to nix weekly themes. We don’t do weekly themes for kids; we do them for teachers as a guideline. With a bee in the bonnet, we are never sure who will run where with what. This coming week we will be exploring Native Americans; who knows where that will lead.

I think it’s time for our teachers to begin to give some of those workshops again. We used to do that every year, but fell away from it because we were so far out of sight in what we were doing at the GS. One of the things that they didn’t do was nutrition and food. They also had no slot for hyperactivity and for foreign language which we do at school.

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We were really proud of the kids yesterday. We embarked on a lesson about Christopher Columbus. We told his story and most of them were able to re-tell the story. Hadley knew the names of the three ships. Addie knew one and kept saying Pinta, Triston knew one and Daymon knew one. MJ knew half of the Santa Maria.

Over the years you read about people like Columbus and the kind of lives they led. The children liked hearing about the way people lived on board ship. It was hard for them to imagine. It would have been nice to take them out to the ship docked in EVV, but … Did you know that our bus driver is quite ill and is having surgery on Monday. Please pray for her.

One of the things that’s really important to convey to children at this age is the tremendous differences, time, and distance which can only be taught in story. A long time to children is 10 minutes. A big distance is farther than they can see at any time. A historical perspective is one of the big gifts parents and teachers can give to a child. For most people it’s an impossibility; that’s why you keep badgering the mind of a child until he finally understands that not all people thought the same way over the years, did things the same way, wore the same clothes, believed the same things. Understanding that is one thing accepting it is another. Being interested is the charm.

Yesterday I tried to get the kids to name things they would take with them if they were gone a long time. Most of them said toys. Two, Hadley and Daymon said food and water. Abby said her parents and I couldn’t help but to smile because she’s exactly right. Take that which is nearest and dearest but also that which will provide for you. Columbus set off with the blessings of Isabella and Ferdinand, but the well wishes of others can’t always provide for you. Abby is sure her parents will provide for her – so they come along. I thought it was precious.

Today we will go to the Stay Alive House out at the 4-H Center. We will be having cheese, egg, tuna and peanut butter sandwiches, pretzels, apples, cookies and milk. Fire safety is one of the most important lessons children can learn early.

It’s interesting to think back historically and remember how close people used to be to open flames and how we are so removed from that now. Does our distance provide us with a barrier or an ignorance. On Wednesday I wanted to do some things with matches, but decided against it because the as I watched the children play all morning, I realized they would watch me light matches and want to do it too. Too many of these children don’t listen and don’t mind, and I was afraid they would seek out household matches and burn themselves. So we did an ice to water to steam experiment.

Our next week will be spent studying American Ethnic people. Am I too modern? I think American Indians are fascinating. My oldest friend (of 51 years) mother was a Sioux; she was one of 12 children. Parky became a WWII trench nurse. She was one of the kindest most loving women I knew growing up, and I loved her with all my heart. She married a Pennsylvania Dutchman and all her children were blonds. In her memory next week, we will have a pancake and egg breakfast.

Tonight I am telling ghost stories at the Newburgh Town Hall to the Ghost Story Tellers. It should be fun. My house is probably the only actively haunted house in Newburgh. Everyone in my family has seen something here over the last 30 years, and I’ve written the stories down and will give them to the town tonight. Should be fun.

This weekend is the big Early Childhood Workshop. All our teachers are going.

Things We Believe In

This simple  Thank You was sent to me by one of our mothers with a brother who is fighting in Afghanistan. Having had two children in the Navy, it's important to me that we realize just how important it is to support our troops. At the Garden School, we pray for our troops every single day by name.

Last week, while traveling to Chicago on business, I noticed a Marine sergeant traveling with a folded flag, but did not put two and two together. After we boarded our flight, I turned to the sergeant, who'd been invited to sit in First Class (across from me), and inquired if he was heading home.

"No," he responded.

"Heading out I asked?"

"No. I'm escorting a soldier home."

"Going to pick him up?"

"No. He is with me right now. He was killed in Iraq. I'm taking him home to his family."

The realization of what he had been asked to do hit me like a punch to the gut. It was an honor for him. He told me that, although he didn't know the soldier, he had delivered the news of his passing to the soldier's family and felt as if he knew them after many conversations in so few days. I turned back to him, extended my hand, and said, Thank you. Thank you for doing what you do so my family and I can do what we do.

Upon landing in Chicago the pilot stopped short of the gate and made the following announcement over the intercom. "Ladies and gentlemen, I would like to note that we have had the honor of having Sergeant Steeley of the United States Marine Corps join us on this flight. He is escorting a fallen comrade back home to his family. I ask
that you please remain in your seats when we open the forward door to allow Sergeant Steeley to deplane and receive his fellow soldier. We will then turn off the seat belt sign."

Without a sound, all went as requested. I noticed the sergeant saluting the casket as it was brought off the plane, and his action made me realize that I am proud to be an American.

So here's a public Thank You to our military Men and Women for what you do so we can live the way we do. Signed: Stuart Margel -- Washington, D.C.

Also, here are two very touching photos honored at this years International
Picture of the Year. Photo






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Every week seems to bring new things. I have a plug in door bell because we live in an ancient house that was built before doorbells were invented. It works pretty well provided it’s plugged in and the battery is charged. It’s all doable; it just needs to be thought through. Thanks for all the input and the care.

Locking doors is a concern for younger people, so I’m not as involved in this as they are, and I intend to let the younger people manage this. I’m claustrophobic, so anything closed locked or finalized is a frightful subject with me. But I will comply with what all of you want.

This is fire safety week and we have been fought over by the fire department. Two teams arrived, one last Monday and one this week to do basically the same thing. I think they were trying to outdo the other. It was hilarious. We are talking about eight firemen who arrived on both days – different men! They really love coming to the school. We need to do this more often. One of them asked me about sending his child. We were delighted. Friday is the adventure out to the Stay Alive House.

Miss Sandy is seriously ill. She’s our bus driver. Please keep her in your prayers. She has been with us as long as the school has been in service. Please pray for her.

We have been asked nearly every day about the children helping in the kitchen. Interestingly this year the Fire Safety theme is “Kitchen Safety.” We encourage children to help keep the school clean by picking up and putting their toys away. One afternoon we let them do the dishes and the “helper” bug never left. So this week we are adding a “kitchen brigade.” It allows the kids to help with lunch clean up. It’s strictly volunteer and yesterday we had a trial run and the place was ship shape in ten minutes. It’s about clearing and wiping tables and using the swiffers to sap the floors. The kids are delighted with the chores. Learning to contribute, to do, to help, to understand need, to finish a big task, to understand how work fits into the day is a really good thing for very young children to accomplish mainly because they often think housework and care is something that “just happens.”

Please watch your child’s outfit. Today will be 78 degrees and we have children coming to school in layers of winter clothes. We have this problem every year. Please use the following as a guideline: short sleeves and shorts when the weather is in the 70s or above. Long pants when the weather is in the sixties. When the temp will be 65 or lower, begin with long sleeves. Please send a light jacket. Children play hard. They run, they climb, they slide, and yesterday they had running races and bobbed for apples. In long sleeves and long pants, they were so miserably hot, and then wet, we had to change some of them.

We will be covering Columbus this week on the 12th. Please ask your child what he has learned on that day.

What We’re Up To October 9-13

Well, the votes are in!!! The response to the doorbell idea was a big yes! This week I will venture off to Lowe’s and purchase a doorbell. I think mid-week we will start locking the school at 8:30 am. If you arrive after 8:30 am you will need to ring the bell.

Today is the kick-off for our new fundraiser. Last year we chose to participate later in November. We ran into bad weather and our delivery times were pushed back. Everything made its way here by Christmas. This year we’ve added many products to the fundraiser. The event will run from Oct. 9-Oct. 23. I will post reminders weekly. This is a great way for the school to receive funding. We will receive 40% of the proceeds.

You may collect money at the the time of the purchase of after the products are delivered. The estimated delivery date for the products is October 28.

We are venturing to the “Stay Alive house” this Friday. Children should arrive in field trip mode at 9 am. The cost for this trip is $3.00 per child. Remember this doesn’t apply to parents that already paid their $250.00 fee. Donations are always excepted!

Let’s have a great day!

Breathing

An Exercise in Proper Breathing

Take a Good Breather
— By Nicole Nichols, Personal Trainer

Proper Breathing is an underestimated, but critical building block of good health. Slow, deep breathing gets rid of carbon dioxide waste and takes plenty of clean, fresh oxygen to your brain and muscles. More blood cells get the new, oxygen-rich air instead of the same old stale stuff. Experts estimate that proper breathing helps your body eliminate toxins 15 times faster than poor, shallow breathing. You’ll not only be healthier, but you’ll be able to perform better (mentally and physically) and, of course, be less stressed and more relaxed.

Here’s an exercise that will help you get the full benefits of good breathing. The techniques in this exercise are ones you should try to develop in your normal breathing, and that could take practice. Try to take about 10 minutes, but it can happen in five by cutting the time for each step in half. Most of it can be done anywhere you need to relax or clear your head:

  1. Get Ready (2 minutes) Make the room dark, or at least darker. Lie down on a couch or bed, or sit against a wall. Use a pillow for comfort. Make sure no part of your body is strained or supporting weight. Close your eyes. Just pay attention to your breathing for a minute or two. Don’t try to change it, just notice how it feels. Imagine the fresh blood flowing through your body. Listen to your surroundings.
  2. Stage I (2 minutes) Practice breathing in and out of your nose. Exhaling through the mouth is okay for quick relaxation, but for normal breathing, in and out the nose is best. Take long breaths, not deep breaths. Try not to force it, you shouldn’t hear your breath coming in or out. You’re drawing slow breaths, not gulping it or blowing it out. Feel the rhythm of your breathing.
  3. Stage II (3 minutes) Good breathing is done through the lower torso, rather than the upper torso. Each breath should expand your belly, your lower back and ribs. Relax your shoulders and try not to breathe with your chest. Put your hands on your stomach and feel them rise and fall. If it’s not working, push down gently with your hands for a few breaths and let go. Your stomach should start to move more freely. Relax your face, your neck, your cheeks, your jaw, your temples, even your tongue.
  4. Stage III (3 minutes) Feel the good air entering your lungs and feel the stale air leaving your body. “In with the good, out with the bad” is definitely true here. Make your exhale as long as your inhale to make sure all the bad air is gone. Remember, long slow breaths. Most people take 12-16 breaths per minute. Ideally, it should be 8-10. Now try to make your exhale a little longer than your inhale for a while. Pause after your exhale without taking a breath. Focus on the stillness and on not forcing an inhale. Your body will breathe when it needs to.

Comment: We do this with the kids in yoga practice. They are finally getting good at it. Aidan came to me and showed me his breathing. It was very cute.

Fire

EMMITSBURG, MD. – The U.S. Fire Administration (USFA) announces the release of a special report regarding fatal residential structure fires with working smoke alarms. From 2001-2004, 391 fatal residential structure fires with working smoke alarms were reported to the National Fire Incident Reporting System (NFIRS) resulting in 452 civilian fire fatalities.

“Each year an unacceptable number of American citizens lose their lives in residential structure fires where smoke alarms operated,” said Acting USFA Fire Administrator Charlie Dickinson. “USFA has investigated the characteristics of the victims of these fires to better educate the public in taking preventative measures to reduce the risks involved with such fires.”

Alarms operated in 34 percent of fatal apartment fires and in 12 percent of fatal one- and two-family dwelling fires. Thirty-seven percent of the victims of fatal residential structure fires with working smoke alarms were sleeping at the time of their death. An additional 29 percent of victims were trying to escape the fire at the time of their fatal injury.

“We know the value that smoke alarms, escape plans, child fire prevention programs, and residential sprinklers can have on saving lives,” said Dickinson. “We continue to encourage all residents of this nation to take the steps necessary to ensure their homes are fire safe today.”

The report, Investigation of Fatal Residential Structure Fires with Operational Smoke Alarms, was developed by the USFA’s National Fire Data Center as part of its Topical Fire Research Series and is based on data from the NFIRS for 2001-2004. The report examines residential structure fires with fatalities where smoke alarms operated and addresses the characteristics of these fatalities.

A copy of this report and other reports in this series may be downloaded from the Topical Fire Research Series page.

Comment: It’s National Fire Safety Week this week. It’s a good idea to review fire drills and scenarios about “what if…” Talk to your children today.

California

KINDERGARTEN PREP
Late start to school, on purpose

Janine DeFao, Chronicle Staff Writer

Saturday, September 30, 2006

Philippa Barron talks to her son, Jackson Pilisuk, 5, who...

When other kids their age started kindergarten last month, 5-year-old Caitlin and Jackson Pilisuk just waited on the sidelines.

The Oakland twins were eligible, but their parents and preschool teachers decided they weren’t ready “emotionally to deal with the rigors of kindergarten,” said their mother, Philippa Barron. So the twins will stay in preschool and start kindergarten at age 6.

Evan Swihart, on the other hand, is happily plugging away in his Walnut Creek kindergarten class at age 4.

“After a few days, we got the sense that he’s in the right spot after a whole year of worrying and fretting about it,” said his mother, Christine.

An estimated 9 percent of children nationally are entering kindergarten a year later than they could, though there’s little evidence that children perform better in school if they start late. This practice has become common enough to earn the nickname “redshirting,” borrowed from a term for college athletes who don’t play in their freshman year in order to spend the time building their strength and skills.

For kindergarten, boys are twice as likely to be redshirted as girls, whites are redshirted more than minorities, and middle-class and more affluent students are more likely than poorer ones to delay, according to studies by the U.S. Department of Education’s statistics center and other researchers. As kindergarten becomes more academic and schools move to full-day programs, whether to redshirt has become a hot topic — and great source of stress — for parents with the means to pay for an extra year of day care or preschool.

The situation is exacerbated in California because its requirement that kindergartners be 5 years old by Dec. 2 is one of the five latest cutoff dates in the nation. Thus, a single kindergarten class can include old 4-year-olds, 5-year-olds, and young 6-year-olds, and many teachers say that creates a developmental gap that is hard to bridge.

But experts worry that redshirting puts low-income students at an extra disadvantage. The children who end up going to school young because their parents can’t afford to hold them back are also the ones with the least preparation and lowest rates of participation in preschool, they say. Then those children to have to compete with older, better prepared students whose parents may demand more challenging classrooms so their kids aren’t bored.

State Sen. George Runner, R-Lancaster (Los Angeles County), has authored legislation each year for the past decade to move up the state’s cutoff date to Sept. 1. He said his bill finally gained traction last session, when it passed through every committee with support from the California Teachers Association, the state PTA and the California School Boards Association.

Twenty-two states moved up their cutoff dates between 1975 and 2000, said Deborah Stipek, dean of Stanford University’s School of Education; 37 now limit kindergarten to kids who are 5 years old by Sept. 30 or earlier.

Comparison of test scores among states is helping drive the change.

“I think people are recognizing our curriculum is different than it was 10 or 15 years ago,” said Runner, who founded a private school before becoming a legislator. “We constantly found our (students with) fall birthdays, particularly the boys, were the kids who were struggling.”

If passed, Runner’s bill would move up the cutoff one month each year for three years, starting with the 2008-09 school year. The sticking point has been figuring out how to handle its financial impact, because the number of kindergartners could drop by one-fourth over the phase-in years, which would result in less per-pupil state funding for schools.

But holding children back from kindergarten could have unintended consequences.

Stipek, who has studied the issue, said the academic benefits that redshirted kids see early on generally disappear by third grade. Some studies also suggest children who are “over age” for their grade are more likely to have behavior problems and to drop out later.

Stipek, who opposes changing the cutoff, is concerned that low-income students — who she believes would benefit more from a year in school than another year at home — lose from redshirting, whether they or their classmates are held back.

“Unless you ensure kids have access to high-quality preschool, you are putting disadvantaged kids at a greater disadvantage,” she said.

A study published this summer by researchers at the University of Southern California and the University of Texas at Austin found that redshirted students were less likely to repeat kindergarten and subsequent grades but didn’t see any long-term academic or social benefits.

Many kindergarten teachers insist that age makes a difference.

“I can tell which kids are ready to sit on the rug, which ones don’t need to cling to Mom and Dad. I can tell by their interest and their ability to focus,” said Los Angeles teacher Armando Argandoña, president of the California Kindergarten Association, whose members voted this year to make changing the cutoff its top priority.

“I don’t want to say every 4-year-old will have trouble, but 90 percent of them have a hard time getting started, even the children who have had preschool,” said Santa Rosa teacher John Eberly. In his class of 19, he said, the three students repeating kindergarten this year entered last year as 4-year-olds.

Skills that were taught in first grade when he started in the field 14 years ago — such as reading short words and understanding addition and subtraction — now are expected in kindergarten, and homework often is assigned.

Other factors often come into play, too.

“The issue for us was not kindergarten but later in life when things become more challenging academically and socially,” said Veronica Altschul of Kensington, whose first-grader, Eric Ingersoll, turned 7 on Sept. 12. Her daughter also will start kindergarten at age 6.

Altschul, who called the decision “12 months of agony,” thinks that her children will be better prepared to make decisions on issues from sex to drugs and that they will get more out of college.

“What’s the rush? Why not give them another year of play?” she asked.

Eve Pearlman of Alameda, who is happy with her 6-year-old’s experience entering kindergarten at age 4, nonetheless would like to see the cutoff date moved up.

“If you’re thinking about just your kid, and your kid is a year to a year and a half older, you’re not taking into consideration the whole group,” Pearlman said. “I’m not so sure being the biggest and the best is necessarily good for a kid. I think being challenged is pretty good.”


Kindergarten goals

California’s Department of Education sets specific goals that students must meet before being promoted to the next grade. These are a few of the math, reading and writing goals for students completing kindergarten:

Read simple one-syllable, high-frequency words.

Write words and brief sentences that are legible.

Write uppercase and lowercase letters of the alphabet independently.

Understand and follow one- and two-step oral directions.

Count, recognize, represent and order numbers up to 30.

Identify and describe geometric objects.

Identify time to the nearest hour of everyday events (e.g., bedtime is 8 o’clock).

Directly compare the length, weight and capacity of objects (e.g., this one is shorter).

Comment: This is an interesting article and shows us what people think about outside our little healthy environment.

China

From prodigy to dunce – the debate over education
By Guo Qiang (chinadaily.com.cn)
Updated: 2006-09-30 17:20

Some call three-year-old Xiaojie (alias) a prodigy. He can recite hundreds of poems and competently communicate with others, as well as introduce himself in simple English, writes the City Express on September 29.

Others call Xiao an utter dunce for not being able to eat properly and his lack of toilet training.

Wei Yongkang, a Hunan native, may very well understand Xiao’s situation.

Zhong Yongkang
Wei Yongkang, a Hunan native was accepted into the China Institute of Social Science at the age of 17. But he had to be fed by his mother when he was in his third year of senior high school. Wei made headlines again following his dismissal from the country’s top research body for his inability to look after himself two years later, at 19. [File]

In early 2006 the story of Wei, a prodigy, swept through the Chinese media.

Wei rose to fame after being accepted into the China Institute of Social Science at the age of 17. Wei made headlines again following his dismissal from the country’s top research body for his inability to look after himself two years later, at 19.

These stories are raising awareness about early childhood education in a country where parents are keen to cultivate their sons into ‘dragons’ and their daughters into ‘phoenixes’.

In the 1960s, China was embroiled in a wave of change originating from the thoughts of the late Chairman Mao, calling for China’s thousands of young men and women to undergo a national campaign for rehabilitation in China’s huge countryside. Because of this, most of them were deprived of their right of education.

Naturally, they pushed their dreams of education onto their offspring, relying on their children to finish an education that they themselves were not given the opportunity to do. China’s education system, with its focus on exams and scores has also bred rampant social problems.

“Children must build a solid foundation of knowledge in childhood. They cannot miss the best opportunities to learn,” Xiao’s mother says, adding that they can learn to take care of themselves after they grow up.

Xiao’s mother’s words reflect most ambitious Chinese parents.

Experts attribute children’s changing from prodigies into dunces to parents’ irrational teaching methods and their tendency to dote on their children.

“Parents are to be blamed for the change,” one of China’s top teachers Li Shuying says.

“Parents always neglect children’s social abilities. Their children will likely look down on themselves for they cannot cook a meal on their own or play with classmates,” Li says, adding that kids may lose confidence and interest in their future lives.

“Xiaojie has never used a spoon and when he felt thirsty, his grandmother had to help him drink water. How can he learn to eat or drink by himself?.” WHO SAID THIS?

For parents who lost their opportunities for education, cultivating their offspring’s mental capabilities is often seen as more important than nurturing their social skills. But experts differ, claiming it isn’t good for children to absorb a large volume of knowledge when they are young.

“It is time for children Xiao’s age to play,” Li told the paper, adding that children’s abilities should be cultivated through games, through which children can lay a solid foundation for the future.Comment

Comment: It’s always interesting to learn about early childhood development problems in other countries.

Emotions


Going Through the Emotions Why It’s Worth the Trouble
— By Mike Kramer, Staff Writer

The world can be a beautiful place, full of possibilities and life. You can feel invincible and in control. But it’s not always like that, is it? The world can also be a stressful, upsetting place with too many things to get done at once. At times, it seems like things that were once clear-cut are harder than they really need to be. Is it worth the trouble, you ask.

You’re darned right it is!

When your body and mind are struggling to deal with the physical and emotional changes that come along with a pregnancy, when things seem out of control, you’ve got to take control of what you can. When uncertainty fills your mind, that’s exactly when you need to be at your healthiest, your strongest, your most energetic. There’s no better time to create your own little corner of sanity and positive feeling. The best way you can do that is to work on making small things happen. As an expecting mother, it’s important not to try to tackle too much at one time. You’ll wear yourself down in the process. Include something positive in every single day.

You’ve probably heard this story before, but since you’re here, it’s worth retelling: A frog, hopping around the farm, minding his own business, fell right into a pail half-filled with cream. Swimming frantically, he found the sides too steep and too high. Determined not to give up, he continued to struggle. He kicked and squirmed, kicked and squirmed until at last his churning had turned the cream into a block of butter – allowing him to hop right out. He never gave up!

Here’s how your story and his intersect. If he started feeling sorry for himself, he would have sunk to the bottom. But instead, he kept kicking. He kicked not because he knew it would help him escape, but because he was compelled to. He kicked because the alternative was no alternative at all.

From the frog’s point of view, all he was doing was treading, doing what he could given his situation. If you keep kicking, even if it just seems like you’re treading water, you’re actually causing real change that will make a huge difference later on. Stick with your healthy eating and exercise. Continue thinking of the positives in your life. Keep doing what you know will help your body. The sickness and aching back will pass and a beautiful baby will be your reward. Don’t doubt yourself or your skills as a mother.

There will be good days throughout your pregnancy; there will be bad days – sometimes several in a row. There will be lazy days and discouraging days. But there will also be days of revelation, days of being proud of who you are becoming, days of realizing your potential as a parent, days of wanting to climb on top of your success and reach for the stars, because you just know that anything is possible.

These are the days that make it all worthwhile. These are the days that let you deal with those other, not-so-great days. Once you know those bad days will be there, it’s easier to accept them at face value and deal with them. But you have to keep kicking on those bad days to get to the good ones. If you’re not kicking, you’re sinking.

Don’t let the world or your own doubts take away one of the most positive things you have going for yourself – your determination to be the most healthy, energetic, vibrant, and wonderful parent that you know you are capable of.

Comment: this is a keeper. It’s applicable in many parts of life.